Christmas can be such a season of contrasts.
Blessings and stress. Freedom and feelings of being trapped.
Loved ones around you or you being alone.
Choosing boundaries. Making hard choices.
Seeing doors open you thought would stay closed.
Being free or trapped by holiday bullies of all kinds.
Thinking of the strange connections we can make to holiday songs.
As a kid I always wondered why there was that tenth bully reindeer Olive, and why none of the others ever stuck up for Rudolph. No one understood why that song and show made me sad. No one got it.
And poor ol' Frosty! He couldn't get anything right! But then his brains really were made of mush. What could you expect from a snowman after all?
At least no one asks why we don't have mall Santa photos of our little boy anymore. I guess they got tired of getting the look whenever they asked. Shudder...cringe...yeah...THAT LOOK!
This Christmas I wish for you the best of the season, for you! What you need, who you need and when you need. If being alone is your choice, then I pray you won't be lonely. If risking that open door is your choice, then I pray that your risk pays off wonderfully! If you are hurt and hiding away, I pray that you are comforted and know you are loved.
Survivors can have a hard time at Christmas but we can make it our own. This year we are just three for Christmas. We are so excited! Find space and a place for you this season...it isn't meant to be a time of stress and pain. Really...and we can take it back!