My son made this and I love it -
a gun toting, keyboard playing snowman with a classy lid and a perky nose.
This is my guy saying, "You talking to me?"
Recently I was accused of placing labels and blame on people. I hadn't really thought I was as I was focused on my healing journey, being responsible for my healing. Is that so very strange a concept? How you feel about your own actions or inactions is entirely yours. Your response, your feelings, your stuff. Not mine, even if we were crossing paths, this is MY HEALING JOURNEY.
I'm willing to share the road and even break bread together or share. But what I will not do is stop healing. I will not stop speaking out against abuse and against those who choose silence.
If you feel that I should be silent you need to understand that I cannot be silent anymore. I cannot carry blame or shame that is not mine. I cannot be afraid of what I cannot be. I can only move forward, move through the hurt to the healing, and find my way.
Before you question my healing path, may I suggest you consider your own? Where you are, right now, has to be the most important thing for you. Not for me, it is your path not mine.
Before you question my path maybe you should examine your own.