tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post1810042562156990661..comments2023-09-24T03:50:57.097-07:00Comments on Scarred-Seeker: Go away!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-53134630157933574462011-08-29T14:20:45.063-07:002011-08-29T14:20:45.063-07:00Oh do I know those zombie movies well... to move f...Oh do I know those zombie movies well... to move forth, healing and learning from the pain we have gone through is good, helping us to avoid it in the future. But yes, there are many whom love to wallow in its sympathies. They won't understand your signs well, probably will crawl under, over and around if you let them... still healing is a process. This time they might have made it through, the next time, your wall will be stronger.Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09655163868990155242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-34757442358624775222011-08-22T11:04:22.763-07:002011-08-22T11:04:22.763-07:00SuperMum - it does feel better to have that distan...SuperMum - it does feel better to have that distance doesn't it? Drama free zones are good!<br /><br />Mike - It is hard, because you want to help the real hurt but being sucked into the drama is not fun for anyone! I surrender people to God, and let Him bring them to whom they need to be with...<br /><br />Thanks for coming by!Mystic_Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00099062213372011260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-79240601738152356232011-08-19T09:58:15.799-07:002011-08-19T09:58:15.799-07:00I totally get that. Helping people can be hard be...I totally get that. Helping people can be hard because it could be their drama, or real hurt that needs healing. The best advice I can give to anyone is that God is always with them, even when it seems all help has gone from them. God never leaves, and He is the ever-present help in time of need.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02182198583083967546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-16336604894932866362011-08-19T08:08:00.701-07:002011-08-19T08:08:00.701-07:00After years and years of family and friends who lo...After years and years of family and friends who love the drams are so negative I have started one by one to distance myself from them and you know what I feel so much better for doing so ...The Real Supermumhttp://www.therealsupermumblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-70880218018667801002011-08-19T06:54:05.050-07:002011-08-19T06:54:05.050-07:00Patricia - thank you for the love and encouragemen...Patricia - thank you for the love and encouragement! I hate zombie movies too - shudder! "Healing over drama making" I like that!Mystic_Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00099062213372011260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-33017130040468143012011-08-18T23:09:50.558-07:002011-08-18T23:09:50.558-07:00You have so much strength and so much courage and ...You have so much strength and so much courage and such a desire to want to heal. I watch you and see a much younger me wanting to heal so bad that I refused to let anybody hold me back. Boundaries are healthy and those who don't want to heal won't like them. You have to put your healing first over their drama making. I hate zombie movies. I cannot watch them.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-38202255981629672442011-08-18T20:31:20.466-07:002011-08-18T20:31:20.466-07:00Sharon and Mel - you two are the bright sharpie ma...Sharon and Mel - you two are the bright sharpie markers in my evening! Thanks for the encouragement and love! Want me to make you signs too? I have lots of paper! :-)Mystic_Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00099062213372011260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-81328128204503476422011-08-18T20:18:20.180-07:002011-08-18T20:18:20.180-07:00Hang 'em girl! It is so hard to do that! So ha...Hang 'em girl! It is so hard to do that! So hard to say, "Enough already!" I totally understand and for some reason, I've always been so super aware of being one of those life sucking people. I don't want to be one so I try to watch what I say and how much complaining I do. It's sad when folks really don't want to heal. I DO! I want it and I want to keep it. <br /><br />Blessings,<br />Mel<br />Please feel free to stop by: <a href="http://melindatodd.com" rel="nofollow">Trailing After God</a>Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00410114935534301370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105634313164805461.post-23462106634977934572011-08-18T20:11:10.512-07:002011-08-18T20:11:10.512-07:00Precise words show vivid movie clip in my mind of ...Precise words show vivid movie clip in my mind of what you are talking about. It's like the zombies from MJ's Thriller video from the 80's.<br /><br />Sad and yuckie.<br /><br />Hang your signs!Sharon Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00695395104518983907noreply@blogger.com